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“Attunement is almost a synonym for empathy or secure attachment itself.”


– DIANE POOLE HELLER

Attachment THEORY

WHAT IS ATTACHMENT THEORY?

 Attachment theory is a psychological framework that describes how people form and maintain relationships with others. John Bowlby first introduced it in the 1950s and later extended by Mary Ainsworth in the 1960s and 1970s.


Attachment theory suggests that humans have an innate need to form close emotional bonds with others and that these bonds are formed early in life through interactions with primary caregivers. Good mirroring, meaning being able to appropriately respond to a child's needs emotionally, reflecting the understanding of how they feel, gives a child the feeling of being known and understood. It also teaches them about emotions. These early attachment experiences shape our expectations, beliefs, and behaviors in future relationships and influence our ability to regulate emotions and handle stress. 


According to attachment theory, there are four main attachment styles: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant, sometimes referred to as disorganized attachment. These styles reflect different ways of coping with stress and seeking comfort from others. While attachment styles can change over time and in different contexts, they remain relatively stable across the lifespan. 


Those with an anxious-preoccupied attachment style may be preoccupied with their relationships and worry about abandonment or rejection. They may be overly dependent on their partners for emotional validation and struggle with jealousy and possessiveness.


People with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style tend to avoid emotional closeness and may feel uncomfortable with intimacy. They may be dismissive of their feelings and those of others and may have difficulty trusting others.


Finally, those with a fearful-avoidant/disorganized attachment style may have experienced trauma or abuse in their childhood, leaving them with conflicting feelings about relationships. They may alternate between wanting closeness and pushing others away and struggle with self-regulation and emotional stability.

Keep in mind that attachment styles are not set in stone and can change over time. Attachment theory has important implications for understanding human development, mental health, and interpersonal relationships. By understanding the role of early attachment experiences in shaping later outcomes, one can develop interventions that promote healthy attachment and improve overall well-being.

THE HIGHLY SENSITIVE WOMAN AND ATTACHMENT STYLE

 Highly sensitive women can be more vulnerable to developing an unhealthy attachment style due to heightened sensitivity and emotional reactivity. An unhealthy attachment style can manifest in different ways.


The number one attachment style most highly sensitive persons have is the fearful-avoidant or disorganized attachment style. This attachment style is especially common for HSPs who had an inconsistent parent, resulting in becoming a survivor of complex developmental trauma. This is where the parent was their source of safety and source of fear at the same time. This is why when they become adults, these HSPs identify their source of safety as also containing fear. Love for them consists of both and is why they are able to tolerate toxic relationships. 


 The fearful-avoidant or disorganized attachment style consist of both insecure attachment styles mushed into one. An HSP may exhibit anxious attachment tendencies that may occur when a highly sensitive woman experiences a strong fear of abandonment or rejection. They may become overly dependent on their partner and struggle with self-doubt, clinginess, and possessiveness. On the other hand, avoidant attachment behavior may occur when a highly sensitive woman feels overwhelmed by their emotions and tries to suppress or avoid them. They may struggle with emotional intimacy and tend to withdraw or shut down in their relationships.


It is important to note that not all highly sensitive women develop an insecure attachment style and that attachment styles can be influenced by a variety of factors, including childhood experiences and past relationships. However, being aware of your emotional needs and developing healthy coping strategies can help you maintain fulfilling relationships. If you had an insecure attachment style while growing up, there is a chance you could have developed developmental trauma. Consequently, if your developmental trauma went untreated, you may have carried this over into adulthood, later to attract unhealthy relationships with insecure attachment styles. This builds traumas upon traumas and is what is called complex trauma, otherwise known as CPTSD. If you suspect you have an insecure attachment style or possible trauma, seeking the help of a therapist and taking part in expressive arts can also be beneficial in addressing attachment issues, helping to cope with trauma, and developing emotional resilience.



Take the Attachment Style Quiz to find out which style you are on the following page.

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BECOME MORE SECURE IN YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE WITH EXPRESSIVE SOUL ART

Expressive Soul Art can be a powerful tool if you're looking to overcome an unhealthy attachment style. Attachment styles are formed in childhood and affect how you form relationships throughout your life. If you have an unhealthy attachment style, you may struggle with creating secure and authentic connections with others.


Expressive Soul Art can help you explore and process your emotions, which can be incredibly beneficial if you struggle with attachment issues. Through creative expression, you can gain insight into your feelings and experiences, which can help you better understand how your attachment style has affected your relationships.


In addition, Expressive Soul Art can help you develop new coping skills and build resilience. By learning to express yourself in healthy and constructive ways, you can create greater self-awareness and self-confidence, leading to more beneficial relationships and a more fulfilling life.


Be sure to take the Attachment Style Quiz to find out which style you are. 

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